MAD AS HELL
I genuinely believe just maybe divorced parents can get along with each other. But, again I am naive , and made a fool of myself . My ex never can see anything past his own nose.
I tried to openly discuss some issues with him regarding our youngest son yesterday evening, and again he has made me feel that everything is always my fault. He has a way of making me feel as if something is wrong with me.
I was almost convinced he was truly trying to be a good parent. He must be afraid that people may discover what a self-centered person he really is.
Why do I let him get to me? He expressed how sorry he was for hurting me, and my family, and then he turned around, and told my mother that his son has only two parents, and she should mind her own business. I’m the only one who can speak to my mother that way. How dare him !
My supportive parents have given up their golden years for our children, and that’s the thanks they get; he should of just spit in my mother’s face.
I only hope someday he will come to realize the kind of man he truly is.
What a fool I’ve been trying to be a good Christian, and forgive him for all the pain he has caused my sons and me..
If there were a test you had to take before you were permitted to have children, I’m sure he would have failed!
August 22nd, 2007 at 3:55 pm
Excuse me, but if you really were a good Christian (which means not just some of the time or whenever it suits you) you wouldn’t be bad-mouthing your ex…no matter what he has said and done to you. There is a way to stand your ground with dignity, grace, and respect for yourself and the Lord. This deluge of anger and hatred isn’t it.
August 22nd, 2007 at 4:08 pm
Mommy1995
I’m sorry you feel that way. I was only speaking the truth.
Ex’s are a part of divorcelife!
August 23rd, 2007 at 1:05 am
People use that catch phrase “I was just speaking the truth” to justify their venom toward someone else when the Bible teaches otherwise, I believe. I’m not trying to insult…only saying that if you really want to make an impression, acting as a Christian would in all ways is the only way to achieve that.
August 23rd, 2007 at 8:41 am
I’m so glad you read my posts!
August 23rd, 2007 at 8:45 am
There is no snake here. People who use religon to justify their actions are not true Christians. You can forgive, but you do not need to forget the actions of others.